Breaking Modern Loneliness: Jeremy Zucker [Episode 3]

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welcome to breaking modern loneliness, an episodic podcast where each episode is a new open forum discussion on all things human relationships, mental health, and technology. we start with a specific topic, but usually break into whatever space feels natural. hosted by me, ari leff, who is singer/songwriter/producer lauv, and joined by various guests, friends, and professionals. we hope you enjoy each conversation as much as we enjoyed having them :)
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this episode, lauv & jeremy zucker discuss how making new friends is hard. jeremy -- artist, songwriter and producer behind the debut album love is not dying and singles "comethru" and "always, i'll care" -- discuss the exciting highs and anxiety-inducing lows of making new friends as adults.
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@lauvsongs 4 жыл бұрын

Watch more of Lauv’s music videos at lauv.lnk.to/OMVplaylist

@maccari8828 4 жыл бұрын

💙💙💙

@zyorovk 4 жыл бұрын

*PLEASE COLLAB WITH JEREMY ZUCKER*

@maccari8828 4 жыл бұрын

@@zyorovk *YES*

@alivia56719 4 жыл бұрын

Helllllloooooo I love ur music so much!

@shireen5774 5 жыл бұрын

It's hard to believe how modern loneliness and all the kids are depressed are just so connected🥺🥺

@nikar999 5 жыл бұрын

exactly🤧

@siyasawhney1780 5 жыл бұрын

omg yes

@Shoe_e 5 жыл бұрын

Whoa, I didn’t even realize

@Ray7star 5 жыл бұрын

😣🥰true

@patriciako7295 4 жыл бұрын

THEY ARE BOTH MY FAVOURITE ARTIST 🤩

@raihanilatifatunnisa3137 5 жыл бұрын

you guys should literally collab together

@vn8197 5 жыл бұрын

That would be Lauv - Julia ft. Jeremy Zucker

@aayushk2845 5 жыл бұрын

Ƶvn fr tho i wonder if it’s the same julia and in fact if it is julia michaels

@mowendcu 5 жыл бұрын

Like what is the hold up??? COLLAB

@siyasawhney1780 5 жыл бұрын

yesssirrr

@siyasawhney1780 5 жыл бұрын

@@aayushk2845 i think lauv's one was julia michaels... idk about Jeremy zuckers..

@ceylin2006-q2i 5 жыл бұрын

Their hair colors fits so well-

@tommasobertini141 5 жыл бұрын

yeppp

@ceylin2006-q2i 5 жыл бұрын

@@tommasobertini141 Lmao

@abhramandal3706 5 жыл бұрын

All of thes kind of artists suddenly have the same one, lauv, jeremy, lany lol

@celestials3522 5 жыл бұрын

Lauv looked better before.Just my opinion.

@elliotnicknamed2446 5 жыл бұрын

which one is lauv?

@vn8197 5 жыл бұрын

This is like talking to your other self from an alternative universe

@ss-eh4wt 5 жыл бұрын

YESSSSSSS that is exactly what i've been feeling the whole time i was listening to this..like it jus felt so relatable

@danasaurlicious 5 жыл бұрын

this is so necessary - two men opening up, being vulnerable and real

@errold.t 5 жыл бұрын

You might enjoy Justin Baldoni's Man Enough

@marinamohareb2834 5 жыл бұрын

Errold Tumaque YESSS😍

@Jay_R_ 4 жыл бұрын

Exactly how all men should be. As a man myself, we have been trained to believe that being open and honest and not afraid to express our ‘feminine’ side is wrong and makes us less than, but the truth is every man who has no fear and shame to be who they truly, naturally are is more powerful than we realize. To have no fear of being yourself is a beautiful thing, but the sad reality is that A LOT of us men can’t speak our truths because we are way too scared of what others- especially men- might think of us. It’s hard, but with time and having someone to speak your truth to does help, and loving and living your life honestly and without any fears or worries is a tremendously beautiful thing.

@maxonite 3 жыл бұрын

@@errold.t I loove Justin

@ShivCreates 5 жыл бұрын

this is tripping me out... i sometimes forget these are two different people

@belencampoverde1583 5 жыл бұрын

20:24 the way Jeremy said ¨you´re a good dude¨ I LOVE THIS FRIENDSHIP, PROTECT

@morganholman7012 5 жыл бұрын

His smile after 🥺🥺

@Joanne910811 5 жыл бұрын

i literally love how jeremy speaks like its so soothinggg

@sketchios5158 5 жыл бұрын

wait till you hear his music then ;)

@anotherszastan 4 жыл бұрын

hi we have the same name

@Joanne910811 4 жыл бұрын

Joanne Bijo oh wow hi joanne!!! :))

@anotherszastan 4 жыл бұрын

@@Joanne910811 I'm so happy I finally found someone with the same spelling :')

@Joanne910811 4 жыл бұрын

Joanne Bijo SAME haha most people are often named as Joanna

@yeontan4209 5 жыл бұрын

I just wish lauv and jeremy notice this comment. Its just an ordinary compliment but it comes from each atom in my heart. I really love you guys so much, words are not enough to express it. You guys give me an inspiration to study hard to meet you someday and your music helps me like truly a lot. It inspires me in all aspects. Thank you so much. I'm very thankful that God let me know you. I love you so much ❤️

@SangateeGoutom 5 жыл бұрын

I can completely relate to you...

@AntJoseph_ 5 жыл бұрын

Absolutely same

@ksm8l.c.663 5 жыл бұрын

back at you bruh, they serve as my inspirations since i was in 8th grade up til now that I'm first year in college their songs changed my life forever

@siyasawhney1780 5 жыл бұрын

exactly, u both are such beautiful and meaningful artists who please my ears everyday.. thank you for all of your songs because that's the beauty i look forward to

@Joe-ew2gf 5 жыл бұрын

@Joanne910811 5 жыл бұрын

20:23 jeremy is such a caring listener and good mentor that i want to talk n make friends with him so bad

@tunamuna149 5 жыл бұрын

This discussion is so relatable and it's so refreshing to hear them talk about stuff I do, most of the time without even thinking.

@내맘은장식이아냐 5 жыл бұрын

When Jerm said "You're a good dude" to Lauv with a smile, my heart melted. I wish I could be his friend. 20:25

@jaechong9770 4 жыл бұрын

앙... 나두 ㅠㅠ

@elissabiii 5 жыл бұрын

But why jeremy so cuteeeeeee

@linzym.nunezc.1207 5 жыл бұрын

Ikr😳

@adithrimusic 5 жыл бұрын

Literally 2 of my favorite artists together.

@arturoreyesjr.4655 5 жыл бұрын

Mine too!

@ss-eh4wt 5 жыл бұрын

yesss same

@Michelle-og7xl 5 жыл бұрын

Same

@panekmah 4 жыл бұрын

YAS

@lorissabajracharya5515 4 жыл бұрын

same!

@jonathanleofficial 5 жыл бұрын

My two favorite artist just talking with each other. I CAN DIE IN PEACE

@VictorSuarezmusic 5 жыл бұрын

Jeremys voice is like a warm hug

@deezalf9316 5 жыл бұрын

if lany, jeremy and lauv have a collab, that would be the end of the world 👌🏻🔥

@CaleighLin 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you Lauv, for using your platform to normalize this type of conversation. I'm a huge fan of both Ari & Jerm, and I rarely connect to music as much as I do theirs. It means so much to see you two together, especially so candidly (& w matching hair :p) please keep being you, and showing us we're not alone

@klavenqt 5 жыл бұрын

"You're a good dude." and they both smiled. just a lovely friendship we have here and i'm so glad to be a hard fan of both. ♥️

@PuudingMusic 5 жыл бұрын

How does Lauv say everything I've been thinking lately

@siyasawhney1780 5 жыл бұрын

YES

@whitelion8385 5 жыл бұрын

21:07 - 21:10

@linzym.nunezc.1207 5 жыл бұрын

Two chill dudes talking "soft" stuff...my heart cant take this.😳 Imagine if Troye and Paul would have been invited too, I'd pass out.

@jeevikaeraiyoli3431 5 жыл бұрын

yesss troye🥺

@tomvincentlocambo3116 4 жыл бұрын

This vid would blow up.... Like the meaning of this would be soo deep

@lochristy7654 5 жыл бұрын

What I Lauv about you is, you not only slay it at singing, you also touched my heart with those deep conversation about feelings we human share. You truly care.

@sandracano3932 5 жыл бұрын

U should write a book omfg it's amazing the way you express these kind of feelings/thoughts with words

@trinityaragonscriven2117 5 жыл бұрын

jeremy is so pure omg platonic connections with feminine energy awww

@minimalenigma3983 5 жыл бұрын

Lauv's music has inspired me a lot. I just had depression and lauv's music has helped me a lot. He has inspired me to do something in life and I just created youtube channel and i ll start my career as a KZbinr. Thanks lauv. Love you!!! Who is waiting for their collab. Will be great to see you to together.

@krishna48prasadsharma10 5 жыл бұрын

Great bro! You are back on track with help of lauv's song. I ll be supporting you all the way up. I subscribed

@krisallaround1030 5 жыл бұрын

Yeah waiting for their collaboration. It ll be litt

@kinleyyoezer3570 5 жыл бұрын

Great. So true

@kinleythori353 5 жыл бұрын

This is amazing

@savageashell313 5 жыл бұрын

Sad bro. Hope your doing great. Goodluck to you

@kalebv7103 5 жыл бұрын

It's crazy how most of us really feel and think the same things

@natn7592 5 жыл бұрын

Really really appreciate how vulnerable you guys were in this video ! Its crazy that so many of us are actually going through this exact same thing , like i can honestly relate to so many things that were mentioned in this conversation.

@redwanhossain5181 5 жыл бұрын

bruh jeremy is so down to earth and he's really matured idk if he takes drugs or weed i really wish he dont but i love the way he is he is so wise and all these depression and loneliness sometimes comes from use of drugs or weeds or just mentality disorder sometimes seeking medical help , helps and sometimes having the right people around you can help you a lot.

@savsings 5 жыл бұрын

“i feel like for some reason it’s actually easier for me to be open with new people than it is sometimes with the people i’m closest to.” woah, that is so true 😭

@deezalf9316 5 жыл бұрын

protecting them at all cost cuz their friendship is so precious!!! 💕

@NiggaTigga94 5 жыл бұрын

My goodness, LAUV and Jeremy Zucker in a collab video!!! Now we just need a collab track from them fam. 👏👏👏💯💯💯

@Ashtank 5 жыл бұрын

i feel exactly the same as you lauv. it was easy to be outgoing and make lots of friends as a kid. then we grow up and become this person that's afraid of being judged, so we self isolate. we begin to admire those who are carefree and have no inhibitions because it reminds us of what was and could be.

@aayushk2845 5 жыл бұрын

this is one of the best things about mental health during quarantine

@nawsay8464 5 жыл бұрын

Jeremy is basically me in a phone call, looking around, looking at myself. Looking dead and responding with questions. But the best similar thing is that we actually listen to what they say

@rkpascual 5 жыл бұрын

how about a collab song bout this topic? 🥺

@sehardey-kohli723 5 жыл бұрын

the thing lauv said about feeling more dopamine and more excited in starting new friendships as opposed to maintaining old ones is so relatable

@azkalalghani 5 жыл бұрын

imagine being able to make a friend with someone. it seems like a dream.

@kimxharold 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for doing things like this. It's really nice to see that you care about the mental health of your fans. In conclusion, I stan harder than ever.

@chrissybre7010 5 жыл бұрын

exactly what I needed right now! thank you for sharing your perspectives - can relate to this a lot since I’ve always had trouble making new friends as well

@carolinacouto4994 5 жыл бұрын

Why this episode is the shortest of the playlist I want more Jeremy and lauv content

@anav.5628 5 жыл бұрын

10:00 this right here. This is where you realize if your friend is really a friend

@Saharious30 5 жыл бұрын

These podcasts are so nice and so interesting to listen because I feel like everyone can relate to it so much. I am also worried that Lauv is trying to find answers for himself with all these podcast. Lot of love and positivityto everyone out there

@elijahsiegler5516 4 жыл бұрын

Brooo, all my friends are girls too. Jeremy is amazing.

@labcoatofpaint 5 жыл бұрын

I connect so much with what Jeremy said about forcing yourself to reach out to others.

@soyeon9627 5 жыл бұрын

whenever I watch lauv’s interviews, live steams or whatever, I’m always surprised because I feel exactly same way with him. That’s probably the reason why I was really obsessed with his one man boyband. while watching this conversation between two, I was surprised at the same point with lauv about jeremy’s thinking which is quite different from mine and totally new to me. There were a lot of things that I could learn in this video from Jeremy. Thanks to lauv for giving me this precious lesson. oh god I’m SO happy to see someone like me and SO happy to see someone not like me😌

@romaninini 4 жыл бұрын

i didn't know how much i needed to hear you two talking to each other

@siyasawhney1780 5 жыл бұрын

definitely waiting for their collab.. relation between modern loneliness and all the kids are depressed🥺they need to make a collab, we will all be waiting

@mansvanisharma 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you Lauv for this initiative of podcasts ..it is so good to feel that one is not alone and lot of people feel and experience something so familiar like I do , to be aware of it and express it....makes it absolutely good.

@yasmeensharaf7247 5 жыл бұрын

This is everything I've ever wanted... Jeremy Zucker & Lauv

@maryam.tkd71 5 жыл бұрын

Jeremy to Ari : "You are good dude!🙂" 🥺

@verybang 5 жыл бұрын

27:33 It's cathartic. It helps people feel things they've never felt before with other people. To be like, lets meditate together for the sake of meditation that's basically saying to the other person, hey lets take a moment out of our life of suffering to heal each other.

@coffeefirst8888 5 жыл бұрын

You guys are wiser than you know. Never forget that love is an action word. I think you already understand that. --Kay, 54

@Joanne910811 5 жыл бұрын

omG my FAVSSS thank both of you for writing songs and keeping inspiring me, i literally learned n got through so many things by listening to ur songs tons of love from TAIWANNNN

@alvinoalvin123 5 жыл бұрын

literally the two best American artists

@rkmbp 5 жыл бұрын

You have no idea how both of you wonderful artists who i look up to thru ur music come together and do something like this !! Deeply appreciated !!

@thisisrids 5 жыл бұрын

this actually calmed me down. couldn’t be more grateful.

@jenniferdu6418 5 жыл бұрын

i needed this. and honestly, listening to both of their music has helped me so much these past couple of years.

@adriana11280 5 жыл бұрын

I feel this. It’s so hard for me to start new friendships and relationships but after the initial weird awkward getting to know each other stage, my love for people is instant if we have any sort of connection. I am not friends with a single person I don’t love. I love everyone in my life so if I know I don’t feel love for a person, I pretty much stop trying for the connection. Which is probably not a good habit...

@klay8522 5 жыл бұрын

deep stuff discussed here... related a lot to it as not just an artist but as an individual. appreciate you guys opening up about it foreal really eye opening. much love these topics need to be discussed

@soph6663 5 жыл бұрын

You two are so inspiring 💕 I love hearing artists talk about this kind of stuff. Thank you for taking the time to share this.

@maricelacaso2634 4 жыл бұрын

I loved how Jeremy talk. He's so natural. I really loved this man💙

@707-z2i 5 жыл бұрын

It is true that recognizing your behaviour is important, being self aware is the first step ❤❤❤

@TheoSeah 5 жыл бұрын

Been in my head about this for a while, so relatable, Jeremy straight up described my situation

@AxeWeldingTuna 5 жыл бұрын

I positively adore both of them... so honest. Good vibes.

@JBlue-pw3fd 4 жыл бұрын

I can relate to Jeremy 'cause I also have social anxiety plus depression. Thank you for your music, guys. And love you both. ♡︎

@maryam.tkd71 5 жыл бұрын

damn wanna hug both of you 🥺

@sukie7256 5 жыл бұрын

My soul has been lifted! My two favorite artists together, talking about everything I truly think about.

@nerissa8531 5 жыл бұрын

it's so clear that they both have been on the same road of pain but are still in different stages of it. it appears that lauv is still somewhat finding his way and is kinda broken but jeremy has moved on from that and found his own remedy. i hope they both know that they're never alone though, sucks seeing your favourite artists going through this because you just want to protect them from the hurt.

@ameliewacker3333 5 жыл бұрын

It's really great that you both open up in regards to these things because I think it's really helping people...at least it helped me a bit because I knlw I'm not the only one who feels like this...idk

@shuifier5243 5 жыл бұрын

On the topic on adult friendships, It sounds that there is a level of expectation that may be present that may be shunting the natural vibe that you reminisce about you childhood relationships.

@sophiasol2131 4 жыл бұрын

How come I am this month's old when I found this dang I need this all my lifeeeeeeeee

@maywindor1929 5 жыл бұрын

you have know idea, how many times ive been listening to these two

@lucasmadden7056 5 жыл бұрын

Anyone else find their views on friendships so so relateable

@ElijahBrubakermusic 5 жыл бұрын

im just glad that he can have this type of conversation with someone...

@hannalai2442 5 жыл бұрын

“You’re a good dude” *Jeremy Smiles* 🥺aww

@pangngoaphi 5 жыл бұрын

This video give me hope that they will collab soon. 😍

@anammansuri6438 5 жыл бұрын

TWO OF MY FAVORITE ARTIST IN ONE VIDEO I'M GONNA CRYYY😭💜

@tran4797 5 жыл бұрын

love you two so damn much. you're both carrying the music industry on your shoulders all while talking about what really matters 💜

@kkubraozdemir 5 жыл бұрын

I didn't know that I needed this kind of open conversation that is just so calm, simple, and deep till I watched this video. I felt more relaxed, and calmer than ever in these quarantine days. Please keep doing this kind of videos! :)

@itslean8348 5 жыл бұрын

two of my favorite artists together aaaaa

@ssam1820 4 жыл бұрын

Wow I literally have been going through everything you mentioned, i love how u opened up about this as a male, because i always felt maybe because I'm just a very sensitive girl. It was so awesome to see both of you share your experience each experience was different but had the same core problem which is craving deep connection, i feel today in this generation there is a lack of deep intimacy instead of just sex and texting all the time we need more deeper connections that don't involve sex and technology.

@geminastitihandayani9277 5 жыл бұрын

Jeree such a good listener and supportive friend wish i had a friend like him....

@ksm8l.c.663 5 жыл бұрын

YOU GUYS PLEASE KEEP TOUCHING OTHERS' HEARTS AND CHANGING LIVES WITH YOUR MUSIC, YOU BOTH ROCK AND GOD BLESS YOU BOTH ALWAYS!!!! SML FROM PHILIPPINES

@mjgdiaries 5 жыл бұрын

This made my heart feel so many emotions and I felt connected more than I have in a loonnnggggg timmmeeeeee

@kennethmercado4669 5 жыл бұрын

All the kids are depressed is this modern loneliness?

@qistinsufiasulaiman 5 жыл бұрын

they looked like twins. both are my favorite. looking forward on your collaboration guys.

@paner_ 5 жыл бұрын

JUST HAPPY TO SEE BOTH IN ONE FRAME! You both inspired a lot of people and I appreciate you two 🙌🏼

@rheajewan8705 5 жыл бұрын

I could listen to them talk for hours

@paxxx04 5 жыл бұрын

I’m personally really struggling with relationships online and keeping ones I’ve made in real life, especially in quarantine and seeing this is like a breath of fresh air to know I’m not alone that even people I look up to are struggling with this but are making it through is so comforting, ya know? It’s like even tho I’m a teen and they are so much older than me, we are going through similar things and I’m not alone. And this is so helpful too and I really admire how throughout this series each of lauv’s guests are fully involved in the conversation and bring such helpful ideas and knowledge and insight like this is incredible. Love this sm! Thanks Lauv🤍

@NiggaTigga94 5 жыл бұрын

This video is a damn goldmine. If Lauv and Jeremy Zucker didn't succeed in their music careers, they would have been working as one of the best mental health / youth counselors on the fucking planet.

@vn8197 5 жыл бұрын

Thankfully they're pretty success in the industry, but that'd be really cool if they keep working on it

@mikymax13 4 жыл бұрын

16:14 I always do this instead of keeping in contact with the friends that I already made. :(

@sproutaly 5 жыл бұрын

Oh my god. ITS JERM & ARI

@beepboop-5498 5 жыл бұрын

Is that their nicknames or something?

@sproutaly 5 жыл бұрын

Røse - Jerm is short for Jeremy and Ari is Lauv’s real name 💕

@beepboop-5498 5 жыл бұрын

pink skies ohh thank you for explaining! I never knew haha 💜

@theand3300 5 жыл бұрын

It's me, jerm and ari, if they test me they sorry 🎶

@nandini.15 5 жыл бұрын

I was just thinking about this and literally thought no one else would understand where I'm coming from and then comes this video.... I love you both and can't wait for your concert in September!